Is It Ethical to Deny Children a Traditional Childhood?
by Steve Aldersley
Ender's Game, by Orson Scott Card, is a story that deals with a number of important
themes. This essay will focus on whether it is ethical to deny children a traditional
childhood. It will also examine whether too much pressure is placed upon children.
Card's story is an extreme example of a situation in which children play a vital role in the
survival of the planet. I will examine whether the world governments were justified in
their treatment of the Battle School children, and I will look at some real life situations in
which pressure is placed upon children. There is an increasing tendency to try and
develop the abilities of children from a very young age. Soldiers, athletes, and musicians
can begin their training at the age of five, or even earlier in some cases. Schoolchildren
are often given enormous amounts of homework. Another trend encourages small girls to
behave like women, and many wear cosmetics or revealing clothing as they attempt to
emulate teen pop stars. This essay will discuss whether it is morally correct to encourage
such behaviour in children. Is it damaging? Should children have to think about those
things from such a young age?
Let's begin by looking at the role that children play in Ender's Game. The book begins by
revealing that Ender Wiggin is a Third (Card 5), meaning that he was an exception in a
society that only allowed two children per family in most cases. So before he was even
born, Ender was a potential tool of the government. By making him wear a monitor,
nothing that he ever did as a child went unseen. At the age of six, he was taken away from
his family and transferred to the Battle School (Card 19-27). By placing Ender in a
competitive environment and removing the family unit, the government denied him the
experiences that a normal child would go through. Every friend he made was temporary
as he was continually promoted to different armies within the school (Card 187).
Furthermore, Ender was forced to fight his own battles. The teachers allowed Bonzo
Madrid to corner Ender and challenge him to a fight (Card 219-233). So a child that was
essentially portrayed as fair-minded and innocent was forced to become a killer in order
to survive. The justification was that the world would need its military leaders to have
that killer instinct in the battle with the buggers. The government also hid the truth during
the final battle with the buggers by failing to tell Ender and his team that they were
directing real ships (Card 326-327). The result was that Ender was largely responsible for
the destruction of an entire alien species while he was just eleven years old. How could he
be expected to deal with that knowledge? Ender's life was manipulated from the moment
his birth was authorized, until the time he was finally made to leave Earth after he had led
his team to victory. Although Ender's Game is a work of fiction, it is a plausible scenario.
If Earth needed military leaders capable of beating an enemy with superior forces, it
seems reasonable to genetically engineer children and train them from a young age. While
it seems monstrous to condemn a child to a life of intense competition and loneliness,
wouldn't we be capable of taking such extreme measures if the future of the entire human
race were at stake? I believe that we would, and that it would be justified.
Card encourages readers to interact with him on his website, www.hatrack.com, and it
even has an area that deals with research questions. One reader asked the following
question (OSC Answers Questions): "I was wondering whether you were attempting to
make a statement about children and the effects of being pushed too hard (growing up
before they are ready)." Card replied: "I wasn't 'making a statement,' I was telling a story
-- but it was a story about children being pushed too hard into adult roles. I've seen it
many times, in the lives of friends and of ancestors who live on in family lore: When a
child takes on adult responsibility too early, it deprives the child of vital stages of
development. Often such children, when they grow up, are torn between the need to be
responsible and the yearning to have the irresponsibility and freedom of adolescence,
which is an important stage of life. I am impatient with the way that children are
constantly the victims of our national moods and the guinea pigs of our experiments.
Right now my kindergartner is being given homework, for heaven's sake, and has to
make up any work she misses because of illness or family trips. This is kindergarten!
Have these adults lost their minds?" He went on to address his intentions in the book
itself: "In Ender's Game, I was simply exploring a believable (to me) situation in which
sending children to war is believed to be necessary for the survival of the human species,
and what the costs of such a situation might be on some of the key characters involved. I
was following where the story led. It is only afterward that I can find 'statements' that
might validly be made about the story. And those statements are only valid to the degree
that I was following my unconscious beliefs in the process of writing the story rather than
trying to bend the story to fit my conscious beliefs. But now we're getting perilously
close to the realm of philosophy." So while Card seems to agree that too much pressure is
placed upon children, that was not his message in Ender's Game. But the question still
remains: Do we expect too much from our children? In some parts of the world, children
are expected to fight. Human Rights Watch reports that "In over twenty countries around
the world, children are direct participants in war. Denied a childhood and often subjected
to horrific violence, an estimated 200,000 to 300,000 children are serving as soldiers for
both rebel groups and government forces in current armed conflicts. These young
combatants participate in all aspects of contemporary warfare. They wield AK-47s and
M-16s on the front lines of combat, serve as human mine detectors, participate in suicide
missions, carry supplies, and act as spies, messengers or lookouts. Physically vulnerable
and easily intimidated, children typically make obedient soldiers. Many are abducted or
recruited by force, and often compelled to follow orders under threat of death. Others join
armed groups out of desperation (Human Rights Watch - Child Soldiers)." Most of the
conflicts happen in Africa. While they are not fighting for the survival of the human race,
it seems likely that they believe that they are fighting for their own survival. How
different is that situation compared to the one portrayed in Ender's Game? I don't believe
that war ever has a truly satisfactory outcome, and it seems wrong to demand that
children should be involved at all; but while I disapprove of the actions of countries that
recruit children in such a way, I can at least understand why it happens if they believe that
their very survival is at stake. War is often a last resort and is not something that
individuals can control. Adults and children will often have no choice in whether they
become involved in a conflict. But in order to explore the roles of children further, let's
investigate situations in which children choose to accept responsibility at a young age, or
are encouraged to by their parents.
Consider the rewards that an elite athlete can earn. The PGA list of career money leaders
shows that the top hundred players have all earned in excess of $7,500,000 (2007 PGA
Tour Career Money Leaders). Bear in mind that those figures only include prize money.
Top golfers also receive appearance money, as well as revenue from advertising and
sponsorship deals. Forbes estimated that Tiger Woods earned $87 million in 2005 from
his sponsorship deals with Nike and Buick (Tiger Woods, Forbes). In order to become the
number one golfer in the world, Woods began playing the game at the age of two. His
website has a detailed biography which contains the following information: "Born on
December 30, 1975, Woods grew up in Cypress, California, 35 miles southeast of Los
Angeles. He was not out of the crib before he took an interest in golf, at age 6 months,
watching as his father hit golf balls into a net and imitating his swing. He appeared on the
Mike Douglas Show at age 2, putting with Bob Hope. He shot 48 for nine holes at age 3
and was featured in Golf Digest at age 5. He won the Optimist International Junior
tournament six times at ages 8, 9, 12, 13, 14 and 15 (About Tiger - Biography - Par. 14)."
Tiger Woods does not appear to have been damaged by his father's encouragement, but
how many children will be forced to try and emulate his achievements by parents that
may only have their own interests at heart? Gymnasts, swimmers, and musicians are
required to begin training at a young age if they can expect to compete with the best.
Parents may force children to enrol in music lessons in the hope that they will one day
develop into a musical genius; but the dangers are clear. The Piano Education Page has
this to say: "There are of course exceptions to any and all claims of appropriate starting
ages for children. I have had excellent students start as early as just under three years old.
Others were not really ready until later. Don't let your expectations and desires be the
sole determinant of when the child begins lessons or how fast you feel they should
progress. The most common frustration of the parents arises because they have forgotten
that their child is taking the lessons and doing the practice. Remember, the child is a
child, not a miniature adult (The Piano Education Page - Tips - Your Child and
Lessons)." The world is becoming an increasingly competitive place. Many businesses
are required to compete on a global level, and children are educated with those needs in
mind. Job applicants are usually expected to have a college or university degree to apply
for an entry-level position. CityNews had this to say about the trend: "The Toronto
District School Board has guidelines on how much homework students should be doing.
By the end of grade 3, no more than 30 minutes, and in grade 6, 60 minutes. By the time a
student hits grade 12, they can be assigned two hours of homework a night (CityNews)."
Is it fair to place so much pressure on children? Are these increased expectations in any
way responsible for the increased level of violence in American schools? Does it have
any bearing on drug abuse? Whether those things can be proved or not, there is no
question that children are being raised in a more competitive environment than in the
Another disturbing trend concerns the way in which young girls are being dressed as
miniature adults by their parents. Some girls aim to mimic their favourite teen idol, and
are allowed to wear cosmetics and provocative clothing. This can be illustrated by the rise
in popularity of junior beauty pageants. "More than 3000 beauty contests are held in
America each year" according to British newspaper the Daily Telegraph (Telegraph 1).
The contestants wear make-up, heels, fancy costumes, and swimsuits, and the youngest
age category is for one year old babies (Telegraph 2). Does it seem right to place so
much pressure on a child? Are the parents seeking fame through their children? This is
hardly a case where someone's survival is at stake; it's a conscious and unnecessary
It can be seen that a lot of pressure is placed upon children. In Card's novel, there was a
reason for putting children under so much pressure; the future of the planet was at stake,
and the government sought a solution that would present the world with trained military
minds at the time when leaders would be vital for survival. It can be argued that countries
that currently recruit children and train them to be soldiers believe that it is necessary,
although I would have to disagree. It seems totally wrong to say that a child is too young
to vote, but old enough to die. One of the most disturbing aspects of this study concerns
the role of parents. How do we distinguish between a loving parent genuinely
encouraging a child, and those parents that would force activities on their children in the
hope that they will benefit from the child's success? It is a very difficult distinction to
make because we can't trust a young child to know the difference. The example of junior
beauty pageants highlights that concern perfectly. It seems obscene that a young girl
should be presented in such a fashion. Although some girls would undoubtedly enjoy the
experience, too many others are being exploited. Stress is becoming more and more
prevalent in modern society, and I believe that our expectations of children are at the root
of the problem. Childhood is an important stage in our development. A child needs to
learn how to play, develop friendships, and socialize with others. Many are already
denied parental attention if both parents are in full-time employment, and it seems cruel to
take stunt a child's growth further by demanding too much too soon. Ender Wiggin was a
genius, and the Earth was in dire need of a leader. The average child should not be asked
to be another Ender Wiggin.
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[Copyright © Steve Aldersley, 2009. Reprinted with permission.]