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Herpes completely aside, if thats your space, and you've asked her not to use it. She shouldn't. End of discussion. Talk to who ever is supervising the class now about or drop it.
Oh and if you do talk to them, make sure you meantion the herpes or you'll have issues.
This sort of thing is a real pet peeve of mine. And it seems to be especially bad with signifcant others. Any relationship you have with someone doesn't give them the right to everything you have. I don't care if your married or just dating.
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Being freaked out by something unexpected or unusual is a pretty human response. That in itself doesn't make one any more or less of a person. I'm starting to find, though, that when I get that immediate "squick" response about something, it's usually very helpful to get some good, accurate information.
A lot of the time the "squick" can be a red flag for a topic about which one has a lot to learn before a good decision can be made.
Again, though, just having the response doesn't make you a horrid person. Rather, you experience the world in context -- welcome to the club. Posts: 14017 | Registered: May 2000
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