I just find it a lot easier to cope when I can answer the question "why?" at some level.
At any rate, I'm glad you guys are at least started on the right path. Even if it's not fixable, you are now both going to be better prepared to move forward... and you'll be surprised at wahat *is* fixable...
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While I'm still just a kid, I do understand divorce. My biological parents split when I was four, and the whole of the divorce is one of my earliest memories. Now, my Mom and Step-dad, married (not quite happily) for about twelve years have had two kids of their own. They are going through pretty much the same thing, just to different degrees. Take the story I've read here, add a case of beer a night, and less than enough money to get by, and it also adds about a billion times more stress. I hope you are able to work things out, both for yourself, and with your husband. I would agree with the suggestion of counseling, if not just for your husband, than just for either of you. Therapy can not only solve whatever problems you don't even know you have, but can be that unbiased third party/listening ear/shoulder to cry on that we all need from time to time. I wish you the best of luck, and hope everything works out fine.
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Also, while I am just a kid, you can email me if you'd like a nice phone conversation to unload everything on. shutupyoulikeit@yahoo.com or I'm on AIM a lot of the time, too. AIM: KILL dXm
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