Part of my problem is that when I get in the zone I hate leaving it. Sometimes I don't even start because I can't bear the thought of getting into the zone and having to quit before I'm done.
So, when do you write? Do you have a daily discipline? How do you balance the needs of work, family, play and writing?
Curious, and hoping for ideas,
Pat
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when do you write?
When I have free time.
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Do you have a daily discipline?
No, if I did then I wouldn't have time to do karate, something of which keeps me sane.
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How do you balance the needs of work, family, play and writing?
I still live at home with my family and they know that if my bedroom door is shut they leave me alone. I also have some time between finishing work and karate to spend some time writing, though procrastination has been quite present for the last few months.
I do spend time with the family but I like my privacy so I usually try and avoid my family as well Though not every one is like me.
Of course, I am single and don't have guests comming over so my place looks like a batchlor pad.
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Any spare moment I get. Early morning, evenings, late nights, any time.
Do I have a daily discipline?
Sometimes. When I want to write a novel or get a rewrite finished then yes, I do. If I'm editing, then I try to do as little as possible. I hate editing.
How do I balance the needs of work, family play and writing?
I'm at home looking after my autistic daughter when she's not at college so when she needs time, I give it to her, which is why I haven't gotten much written this school holiday! Writing is my play. I'd rather sit at home, write and listen to music than go out of an evening.
Rather unsocial of me. And I do hate breaking away (Dinner? Do I have to eat, honey?). It's the little (or large) OCD tendency, I suspect.
Anyway, the laptop (when I'm home) sits on it's perch at the side of the couch, ready to respond to my desire to type anytime I have a moment to resume couch position.
Actually, today I think I write the icecream story my daughter likes so much (in which the mother lets the daughter fix the ice cream dessert because she can't be bothered to get up from the computer).
Now off to church.
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I'm at home looking after my autistic daughter when she's not at college
Score! The first line of my ice cream story is going to be:
"Bethie Stout was autistic..."
Of course, I'll eventually have to come up with an alternate name that feels the same in the mouth, but right now Beth just wants to be Beth in the story.
Once in a while, I get to it first thing, especially if I know I've got a lot of stuff to do in the day ahead of me.
I don't have a word count goal for myself, so much. If I get the idea in my head, it will drive me crazy until I get it out. And I have gotten pretty hooked on sharing with others and getting feedback. I had written an entire novel that no one else had read prior to my finishing it, so this immediate feedback thing is pretty addictive.
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I don't have too strict a regimen. I like it enough that finding time is not too big a problem. I do sometimes have to push myself when I have something I need to get finished. 1000 words a day is about the best I can average over any sustained time, and that's pretty hard for me. I think the most I've ever done in a day is only about 3000, and that was the day I finished the first draft of my novel.
I allow myself to take one day off each weekend. I don't always do it, but it's there as an option when my mind gets weary.
edit: oh yeah, about the "zone". I don't even think about it. I just put in my time. If it happens, great, but I would never not write because of worrying about it.
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But this summer I learned I'm actually a morning writer. I have to set my alarm for a decent hour (usually 8:30), make some caffeinated tea, and sit down in front of the laptop. Mornings are better for getting the requisite 1,000 daily words, while evenings are better for brainstorming multiple projects and doing editing.
I hate leaving The Zone, too, and I've found it's really easy to throw me out of it. The most well-meaning intrusion ("Want to go head out for dinner?") can act like a log tossed at the spokes of the ol' creative wheel.
But, I never let my dislike of getting pulled from The Zone stop me from getting into it. That sounds like a big block that needs to be broken through, TaleSpinner. I hope you find something that works for you. I'd make suggestions, but it's so different for everyone - you just have to fuss around and find the schedule that works for you. When I'm really stuck, and not getting any words out, I change locations - from the bedroom to the kitchen, to the sofa, to the back yard, to the library downtown. A hunt for good 'writing mojo,' I guess.
Pat
Like just today I woke up at 5:45 and couldn't get back to sleep. On a holiday Monday. Grrr.
LOL
Was going to continue on with some mental meanderings involving succubi and multiplication thereof, but that would be sure to get edited...
I've decided that is a reason that I like having my Xanga and being content with a simple word processing program (even notepad in a pinch). That means that I can electronically create anytime there is a functioning (preferably internet-wired) electronic doohickey nearby. And photocopiers are wonderful for obtaining blank paper in a pinch. Then all I need to carry with me is a pen.
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writing in MY head, not THE head! Although bathtub time works for me
I went back to Robert's post and couldn't stop laughing for five minutes.
By the time I could do more than cry and squeek, my daughters were rather concerned. So I tried to explain. And my college-aged daughter looked at me sideways, telling me that she'd never heard the bathroom referred to as a 'head,' and that it must be something limited to my generation. I await with baited breath the result of her inevitable query to her assorted friends.
(There's a news story this last week or so---you've probably seen it---where one of the angles is that a police department pays a guy to do nothing but sit on a toilet all day long. Where was this job when I was looking? I could really use it some days...)
It's a little different, I think, writing with a co-writer though, as we need to coordinate when we write on our projects together; our current style is to work on the same part of the story at the same time, to make sure our 'voice' is unified, and so far that works out as far as the quality of the output. Our last book took us forever to finish, though, which is why we have decided to commit to a daily word minimum. We'll see how that works out.
I do like to write in my head, but I've trained myself to jot it down as soon as possible. I know from experience how bad my memory is, and that fleeting story idea that I swear I will remember... well, it's gone for forever. When I'm in the thick of a book I work on it all the time, mulling it over in my head, thinking about the characters.
Having said that, though, this whole rewriting thing has me confounded. I've yet to find a routine that works for it. But I still try to work on it every day. The temptation is always to write a new story, and experience that glowing rush.