I feel like it goes after. In fact, I feel like smileys are fully self-contained, with their own internal and invisible punctuation, so that
quote:is actually two complete sentences. Whereas
I hate you!
quote:would effectively have a period (internal to the smiley and invisible) immediately followed by an exclamation mark, and would thus be grammatically nonsensical.
I hate you!
Someone help!
!
.
http://www-2.cs.cmu.edu/~sef/sefSmiley.htm
They were created to help prevent misunderstandings on message boards and are completely independent of sentence structure. You use them after the punctuation to modify the tone of the sentence.
It's possible that they are over-used to the point of becoming meaningless, but that's probably not something we need to debate here.
The reason you don't punctuate the emoticons is that they aren't part of english. (That's also why you couldn't find them in the style manuals.)
Think of them as a glyph to add tone or feeling to the english (or any language) sentence they are coupled with. Sometimes you'll even see them used alone to convey pure emotion.
You don't need punctuation in either case because the emoticons aren't words.
Sorry, just ironic.
quote:
Bilbo flushed and there was an angry light in his eyes. His kindly face grew hard."Why not?" he cried. "And what business is it of yours, anyway, to know what I do with my own things?
It is my own. I found it. It came to me."
"Yes, yes," said Gandalf. "But there is no need to get angry."
If I am it is your fault," said Bilbo. "It is mine, I tell you. My own. My precious. Yes, my precious."
The wizard's face remained graveand attentive, and only a flicker in his deep eyes showed that he was startled and indeed alarmed.
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Excellent example
quote:
Bilbo"Why not?" he cried. "And
"
"Yes, yes," said Gandalf. "But"
"If I am it is your fault," said Bilbo. "It is mine,"
The wizardand
heh.
Lisa
This is the amount of money that will be refunded to you. 
Or
This is the amount of money you owe. 
So it's begun already!
find the excessive use of
emoticons to be
distracting
, especially when they're
irrelevant and
annoying.I can't see myself enjoying a book full of emoticons
.
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I can't see myself enjoying a book full of emoticons .
Eh....
It's been done. Exegesis, by Astro Teller. Lots of smilies. It came out a while ago-- the tale of a sentient AI and its creator, as told through their emails. I remember being
when I read it, although the ending was classically sad
-- but then--
....
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Didn't Captain Kirk meet aliens who communicated only with emoticons?

I heard a story once about a man who was invited to speak at a local businessmen's luncheon. While indroducing the speaker, the organizer said, "He recently had a profit of $100,000 on a cattle deal in Texas."
When it was his turn, the speaker said, "I must correct something that was said during the introduction about my making $100,000 on a cattle deal in Texas. It wasn't in Texas, it was in Oklahoma. And it wasn't a cattle deal, it was an oil deal. And it wasn't $100,000, it was $200,000. And it wasn't a profit, it was a loss. And it wasn't me, it was my brother."
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I heard a story once about a man who was invited to speak at a local businessmen's luncheon. While indroducing the speaker, the organizer said, "He recently had a profit of $100,000 on a cattle deal in Texas."When it was his turn, the speaker said, "I must correct something that was said during the introduction about my making $100,000 on a cattle deal in Texas. It wasn't in Texas, it was in Oklahoma. And it wasn't a cattle deal, it was an oil deal. And it wasn't $100,000, it was $200,000. And it wasn't a profit, it was a loss. And it wasn't me, it was my brother."

I purposely didn't use emoticons and you thought I was serious. But I wondered if anyone would connect my post with that episode, although I did think it was Kirk. [This message has been edited by Kolona (edited May 14, 2004).]
Anyway, I still think it was Kirk. 
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I agree with the title burn grammar :@
Actually, Pyre, I think grammar is smokin'!!!
Actually, I do. Particularly since becoming an adult literacy volunteer and seeing how the lack of its understanding is so detrimental. <No emoticon, because I'm serious><Or maybe we need a serious emoticon
>

code:Usefor above
I should have remembered that the code tag doesn't work to disable smilies.
is for 'sarcastic,' which is not what I want, and besides, it doesn't give the 'going out of your head crazy' look like cartoons do, even if I wanted to use it. Know what I mean? The eyes should go around and around in the same direction continuously.[This message has been edited by Kolona (edited May 16, 2004).]
:@
:achoo: :P
Thoughts?
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