Of course, I'm talking about Fahim and my wedding anniversary. Posted by imogen (Member # 5485) on :
Congratulations!
I mean, I knew you'd survive but I was a little worried about Fahim. We've all heard about your temper...
Seriously, Congrats! Posted by ketchupqueen (Member # 6877) on :
Oh, congratulations! May you have many, many more happy anniversaries together!
Doing anything special?
Posted by quidscribis (Member # 5124) on :
Fahim's sick - sore throat - so he doesn't want to go out. I'm trying to convince him that we need to order take away from the Flower Drum, our favorite Chinese restaurant. Other than that. . . Probably not. Although much snuggling will no doubt ensue.
And I doubt anyone wants the details on that. Posted by rivka (Member # 4859) on :
Congrats, you two. Posted by Narnia (Member # 1071) on :
Congratulations. Yours is a great love story!!
Posted by Beren One Hand (Member # 3403) on :
Ask them to make some Chinese chicken soup with extra ginger.
Congratulations love birds. Posted by quidscribis (Member # 5124) on :
Alas, we can't have chicken from there. Theirs is not a halal restaurant, so only seafood. However they have a most excellent Tom Yum Seafood Soup that we are positively in love with!
Thanks for the congrats, y'all!
Hmm. I wonder if I should tell Fahim about this thread? Posted by Tatiana (Member # 6776) on :
Congratulations, quid and Fahim! You two are so cool! Posted by ElJay (Member # 6358) on :
Yay! Happy two years! And many more. Posted by Belle (Member # 2314) on :
Congratulations quid and Fahim!
I know it hasn't been the easiest marriage in the world to make work, with you moving and the differences in your religious beliefs, so it's a real testament to your love for each other and your level of commitment.
May you be blessed with many more happy years. Posted by quidscribis (Member # 5124) on :
You know what? It doesn't feel difficult at all. It feels easy and natural and comfortable and perfect for us. Which, I think, speaks volumes to our compatibility.
Thanks y'all! Posted by Raia (Member # 4700) on :
Mazeltov!
Posted by whiskysunrise (Member # 6819) on :
Congrats!
Posted by katharina (Member # 827) on :
You have always sounded so happy and content and loved when you talk about your life now, quid. I'm really happy for you. Posted by Sid Meier (Member # 6965) on :
details? if the marriage is f/m of f/f keep going if m/m I don't want to hear any details blissful ignorance please.
Posted by ketchupqueen (Member # 6877) on :
Sid, that's horrible. Stop it. Not appropriate. Posted by mothertree (Member # 4999) on :
Congrats qs and fahim Posted by Sid Meier (Member # 6965) on :
hehe *blushes* *grins* Alwight, onwy fibbin.... *digs shoe into sand*
Posted by quidscribis (Member # 5124) on :
katharina, you're right. It reflects how I feel. I'm much happier with Fahim than I would ever be by without him.
Sigh.
As for Sid, I'm just going to ignore him. Well, laugh at him a little, cuz he's funny, and then ignore him.
Thanks, mothertree.
Yep, I strongly support marriage to the right person. It makes life much better.
Posted by Morbo (Member # 5309) on :
You two have such a beautiful love story. Congratulations! Posted by Dan_raven (Member # 3383) on :
And they said it wouldn't last.
Of course, I'm not telling you who "they" are.
Congratz!!!!
Posted by Kama (Member # 3022) on :
Posted by Sid Meier (Member # 6965) on :
[qoute]As for Sid, I'm just going to ignore him. Well, laugh at him a little, cuz he's funny, and then ignore him. [Big Grin] [qoute]
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*twitch*
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Posted by quidscribis (Member # 5124) on :
*ignores Sid some more* Posted by Sid Meier (Member # 6965) on :
NOOOOOOO! I can't be ignored! *screams in agony*
Posted by ketchupqueen (Member # 6877) on :
*joins in the ignoring*
Posted by Jhai (Member # 5633) on :
We should sit down sometime, quid, and you can give me a bunch of advice on living with South Asian men... since I'm sharing an apartment with two of them next semester.
One's Muslim (Bangladesh) and the other one is Hindu (India). Gonna be eating a lot of chicken and seafood.
Posted by ketchupqueen (Member # 6877) on :
Mmmm, or vegetarian dishes.
Posted by Sid Meier (Member # 6965) on :
PLEASE DON'T IGNORE ME! I already feel like I'm vanishing out of existence....
Posted by ketchupqueen (Member # 6877) on :
*talks louder*
So, I know Indian food pretty well, but what's Muslim Bangladeshi food like? Is it like Northern Indian Muslim food? Or does it have a different style?
Posted by Jhai (Member # 5633) on :
Well, according to my boyfriend (the Indian), it's exactly like the food you'd get in Calcutta, India. Lots of seafood, and yummy spices.
According to Thalith (the Bangladeshi), it's pretty similar to Indian food, except it uses less variety of spices in one dish - instead a larger quantity of fewer types of spices are put into the dish. But that might just be the case in the few dishes he knows how to cook.
I guess I'll find out soon - Thalith's mom is coming to visit in Septemeber. She's suppose to be a very good cook. She eats halal (Thalith just avoids pork), so we'll have to drive into Indy to get meat.
I'm hoping to learn a few good dishes from her during her stay.
Posted by Jonathan Howard (Member # 6934) on :
What're-you-writing: Tell [Fa]him to post more, and when he does may my blessings and wishes to the two of you be finally unlocked from the secret charm I put to prevent all it from happening...
I don't mean to blackmail, but we all want him on here more.
Posted by beverly (Member # 6246) on :
Cheers to married love! Posted by quidscribis (Member # 5124) on :
JH - I hear ya. It would be fun to have him here more. OTOH, he actually has a job and a lot of little side projects that take up his time when he's not working. Things like writing or editing his novel, plotting my novels with me, building a forum for scifi/fantasy writers, odd little programming jobs here and there . . . And the list goes on.
Thing about Indian/Bangladeshi/Sri Lankan food - there are a lot of similarities, but there are also huge regional differences. Like northern Indian food isn't anywhere near as hot as southern Indian (Tamil Nadu), and is actually fairly mild to the average North American palate. But that's the general difference. If you ate nothing but Indian food for a year, you could still not have the same thing twice. Indian food uses a lot of spices, especially when compared to NA cooking.
In Sri Lanka, Muslims cook the best wattalapam and some other dishes I don't remember at the moment. The Buddhists cook the best . . . whatever those dishes are, and so on. Certain dishes are used traditionally in specific religious holidays or festivals, so they become a specialty. Muslims apparently cook the best mutton, for example.
Fahim's comment is that he doesn't like western food - it's too bland. But then, he likes my cooking because I also find most NA food bland - I spice everything up.
Jhai, what do you want to know? I'm better with questions rather than just spewing information randomly.
And yeah, thanks for the cheers and good wishes. Posted by Tante Shvester (Member # 8202) on :
quidscribis, I'm newish here, and I've picked up bits and pieces of your love story, and I'd love to hear the whole thing.
And if you have questions after that, feel free to ask!
Posted by Tante Shvester (Member # 8202) on :
Oh! And Oh! And OH!!
Wow. That is an amazing story. Mazel Tov to you both. You truly landed up with your bashert.
Posted by quidscribis (Member # 5124) on :
Ah, thank you for the link to the definition. And yes, I would have to agree. Thanks. Posted by Shigosei (Member # 3831) on :
Congratulations! Your story is so amazing. Sometimes I wonder how it's possible that such a thing could happen. You and Fahim must have truly been made for each other.
Posted by ketchupqueen (Member # 6877) on :
You two are as perfect for each other as Jeff and I are.
I sometimes can't believe that we ever met at all. If just one thing had changed... But we did. And I'm so happy. Reading your story always makes me think of mine, quid. Posted by quidscribis (Member # 5124) on :
Shigosei, thanks. And kq, I hear you. Completely.
Here's the part of the story I left out of the article - it was for a magazine, and I was already over the maximum word count, and besides, they wouldn't have cared.
Before that fateful day when I downloaded his program, I'd heard of blogs. I followed a few regularly and had read even more. But. I had zero desire to start one of my own. There was zero appeal. In fact, I decided that that was one thing I would never do.
Then that morning, June 3rd, 2003, I woke up and thought, I need to start a blog.
It came from literally nowhere. I was vehemently against it the day before, but that morning, those feelings were gone. What changed my mind?
I had no idea. But it felt like God was telling me to do this. I didn't know why, but I know very well that when He tells me to do something, I'm far better off following Him.
So I did.
I did a Google search and found 4 or 5 programs that suited my demands, including being free. I installed them, gave them all a try, and settled on Blog as being the one that was exactly what I was looking for.
In that article, you'll see that I had problems, went to his forums, and on June 13th, I emailed him for help, as per his instructions in the forum. We started chatting as he helped me figure out what was wrong. While we waited for this to load, or that to process, we chatted. About nothing important, and certainly nothing I can remember now. But. After only a few minutes of chatting, perhaps fifteen minutes in or half an hour, and I was hooked. I knew, after that short of a time, that this was a man I found fascinating, interesting, charming, fun, funny. His personality was so completely attractive to me.
By the end of the day, one set of Blog problems were solved, but I still had html coding problems. It had nothing to do with his program, but I wasn't willing to let go of him yet. So I asked him if he'd help me the next day. He quickly agreed. Later, he told me that he was anxious to connect with me the next day as well, for the same reasons as me. In other words, he was also a totally smitten kitten.
In other words, all it took was us chatting for fifteen minutes to a half hour, and the rest was inevitable. Unstoppable.
And I would have married him sooner if there had been a way.
And yes, I do believe that Fahim and I were meant for each other. Otherwise, why on earth would it have worked out this way? Posted by ketchupqueen (Member # 6877) on :
Exactly! I think he is just right for you. Posted by quidscribis (Member # 5124) on :
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