Are you supposed to get your boyfriend something for valentine's day or is it more of a holiday for the guy to get the girl stuff?
Posted by confusedone67 (Member # 7356) on :
e-mail me please
Posted by Judas (Member # 7355) on :
it won't let me send an email-- sooo basically, I think it should be mutual- both sides give- unless of course he insists that you don't-- though you still might want to no matter what he says..
Judas
Posted by Hobbes (Member # 433) on :
Well the typical V-Day (I like to think of it as victory day ) idea is that the guy courts the girl, and thus he's the won wooing and she's the woo-er so to speak. I think most guys would appreciate something back so they don't feel one sided, or that they're purchasing the relationship (but that's a whole other rant I wont go into now). This doesn't have to bee a material gift or a Hallmark card, just something that shows them you're willing to think about them and consider what they want.
Hobbes Posted by Annie (Member # 295) on :
quote:the guy courts the girl, and thus he's the won wooing and she's the woo-er so to speak.
Actually, that would make her the woo-ee. And I mean, come on, she is, isn't she?
Posted by Hobbes (Member # 433) on :
Yes, I got distracted in the middle of the word.
What? I did!
Hobbes Posted by Annie (Member # 295) on :
Did you get my woo-ee joke, though?
Posted by Hobbes (Member # 433) on :
Hobbes Posted by sarahdipity (Member # 3254) on :
I once bought a boy "Alexander and the Horrible No Good Very Bad Day" for Valentine's Day.
So the answer is it sorta depends on how the people involved feel.
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) idea is that the guy courts the girl, and thus he's the won wooing and she's the woo-er so to speak. I think most guys would appreciate something back so they don't feel one sided, or that they're purchasing the relationship (but that's a whole other rant I wont go into now). This doesn't have to bee a material gift or a Hallmark card, just something that shows them you're willing to think about them and consider what they want.![[Kiss]](graemlins/kiss.gif)