I am a closeted gay guy. On Friday, three different people asked me if I was gay.
I am insulted. I mean, not only does this malign my skills as an actor, but none of them had the consideration to follow their suspicions by setting me up with a cute guy.
*mopes* Ah, oh well.
[ November 07, 2004, 11:41 PM: Message edited by: Joldo ]
Posted by Ryuko (Member # 5125) on :
Oooo. You're an actor! That's so cool.
Posted by digging_holes (Member # 6237) on :
Well, I can tell you that in this thread, you're not hiding it very well. Maybe that's why...
Posted by aspectre (Member # 2222) on :
errrm... theatrical / gay , there's a difference?
Posted by Joldo (Member # 6991) on :
Ouch. Now that was cruel.
Posted by digging_holes (Member # 6237) on :
Which?
Posted by Joldo (Member # 6991) on :
All of it.
Posted by Bean Counter (Member # 6001) on :
A question!
This may be the right place to place this thought, rather then start a thread...
What about the men who have been gender altered into women, and then have married. Are these gay marriages that society recognizes? or is the gender of the beneficiary of a sex change Legally changed as well?
I ask out of curiosity not out of any malice, anybody know?
BC
PS sorry you were so obvious, perhaps it was unconcious anger at the election making you want to blow your cover.
Tell me about your mother...
Posted by Wussy Actor (Member # 5937) on :
Hey now. There's lots of us straight guys in the theater.
Posted by Tstorm (Member # 1871) on :
I think it was sarcasm, that his occupation is "actor." Heh. Posted by Joldo (Member # 6991) on :
I am a high school actor, a total amateur.
But I believe our government recognizes gender by genitals. At least, that's how they decide which prison you go to.
Posted by Telperion the Silver (Member # 6074) on :
Yay! Greetings gay brother! Posted by Telperion the Silver (Member # 6074) on :
...and I think the fact that they didn't try to hook you up. Posted by Ralphie (Member # 1565) on :
Wait... so does this mean that our chat session meant NOTHING to you?!
Posted by digging_holes (Member # 6237) on :
They use you up and then just throw you away...
Posted by Suneun (Member # 3247) on :
Cheers Joldo as he joins the "alternative-lifestyle" hatrackers' clique (it's automatic!).
What city do you live in? I apologize that I don't know enough gay boys in all the cities of the US, but I'll keep an eye out for you. Posted by Amanecer (Member # 4068) on :
quote: But I believe our government recognizes gender by genitals. At least, that's how they decide which prison you go to.
According the almighty authority of Law & Order , it's based on the genitals you have- not necessarily what you were born with. So if a guy gets a sex change, he can go to a women's prison.
Posted by Wussy Actor (Member # 5937) on :
And I thought there weren't any convincing arguments for sex change.
Posted by Da_Goat (Member # 5529) on :
You know, if that's what insulting is, I suppose I should feel insulted, too. I'm a very open heterosexual, and nobody's had the decency to hook me up with a hot chick.
Posted by Synesthesia (Member # 4774) on :
People seldom hook me up with chicks or guys... Or at least people I know from college never do. *sulk*
Posted by Joldo (Member # 6991) on :
quote: According the almighty authority of Law & Order
Yep, that's where I got my information too.
Right now I live around Detroit, but moving to Georgia.
[ November 08, 2004, 12:12 PM: Message edited by: Joldo ]
Posted by The Pixiest (Member # 1863) on :
I understand Atlanta has a great community Joldo. Maybe you won't have to be closeted there =)
Good luck!
Posted by Bokonon (Member # 480) on :
BC, actually, it depends on the state. Some take your gender at birth as the answer, others take your current gender. Which is how, in at least one "Red" state, there is a lesbian couple who are married according to the law (the guy was literally a lesbian trapped in a man's body).
-Bok
Posted by Stray (Member # 4056) on :
quote: Cheers Joldo as he joins the "alternative-lifestyle" hatrackers' clique (it's automatic!).
Ooh ooh, do I get to be in it too?? *bounces excitedly* Who else is in it?
Posted by dabbler (Member # 6443) on :
Yey Stray!
I don't want to 'out' anyone who doesn't want to be, but the clearly out ones are Karl, Karl, and Syn. Oh, and you and me Posted by Stray (Member # 4056) on :
quote: the clearly out ones are Karl, Karl, and Syn
Do you mean Karl, Telp, and Syn? Yeah, those three I figured out for myself. Oh, and for the record, I'm actually not queer (not very much, anyway), but I am polyamorous, and I assumed that would fall under the "alternative lifestyle" umbrella.
Posted by dabbler (Member # 6443) on :
yeah I figured that's what you meant. It's okay, I seem to be finding myself in something analogous to poly, myself. And I'm bi. Wooh.
Posted by dabbler (Member # 6443) on :
*dances around*
*invites others to be radical and alternative*
Posted by Stray (Member # 4056) on :
C'mon, there's gotta be a few more freaks lurking around here! Come out, come out wherever you are! We won't bite...unless you ask nicely! Posted by Telperion the Silver (Member # 6074) on :
quote:Right now I live around Detroit, but moving to Georgia.
No way! So do I! Allen Park, Downriver... Posted by Telperion the Silver (Member # 6074) on :
Wait... WHY are you moving to Georgia??
edit: ahhh.. must be where your new college will be...
[ November 08, 2004, 05:04 PM: Message edited by: Telperion the Silver ]
Posted by Joldo (Member # 6991) on :
I'm not headed for college exactly yet . . . it's a job transfer on my dad's part.
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, it's based on the genitals you have- not necessarily what you were born with. So if a guy gets a sex change, he can go to a women's prison.
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