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Because you're an independent guy and a little shy, making deep connections with other people can be a challenge. You're not someone who "wears his heart on his sleeve" so even those closest to you don't always know how you feel. Still, your masculine and dependable nature will draw people who'll invest the time to get to know you.... lling in love is an especially magical experience. You're suddenly free from the rules and thinking that guide your life. Full Results Link

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Is this good science or am I just reading too much into it? Take the test and let me know if it describes you correctly.

P.S. I think you automatically get a free match.com account with the test. I don't know if they spam you, but use a throwaway email just in case.

[ April 03, 2004, 10:08 PM: Message edited by: vwiggin ]
 

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Posted by Synesthesia (Member # 4774) on :
 
Wow. Handsome guy.
 

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Posted by vwiggin (Member # 926) on :
 
Syn, that's a picture of Ethan Hawk.

Since you brought up looks, match.com also has a Physical Attraction assessment test. Can't really recommend that one though. It told us such useful things as: "You are attracted to beautiful women." Wow, really?
 

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Posted by Synesthesia (Member # 4774) on :
 
*was talking about the pic on the left*
But, ah, well. Cool picture from Sandman
 

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Posted by vwiggin (Member # 926) on :
 


Thanks for the compliment. I guess 40 hours of photoshop work was well worth it. I just finished reading the first Sandman graphic novel... can't wait for the next one.
 

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Posted by mackillian (Member # 586) on :
 
I took the test..hmm...
 

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Posted by Synesthesia (Member # 4774) on :
 
Sandman is so excellent. And if you like sandman, Kabuki is even better.
I'm working on the test now... Soon I'll post them, I reckon.

[ April 03, 2004, 11:39 PM: Message edited by: Synesthesia ]
 

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Posted by mackillian (Member # 586) on :
 

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You have a special zeal for life
You bring real passion and insatiable curiosity to life. You'll stand up and fight for causes you believe in. You have a vision for how to live the "good life" so you refuse to settle long-term for a boring job or doing something just because it's expected of you. Life should be "balanced" with plenty of time for fun, spontaneity, fashion, and romance! Though you have both close friends and a broader group of friends to hang out with, you're also very independent. So it may be a little hard to get to know you, especially emotionally. You're overdue to bring real romance into your life and are ready to experience a powerful "spark" with someone special.

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So it may be a little hard to get to know you, especially emotionally.

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I don't know. When you flip me the bird, I'm pretty clear about your emotions towards me.
 

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Posted by Valentine014 (Member # 5981) on :
 
Creepy. That test was so on target.

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Who You Are

You're a woman who celebrates life
You bring real passion to your life. To you life is about connecting emotionally with the people in your life and trying to make a difference in the world around you. You refuse to settle long-term for a boring job or doing something just because it's expected of you. Love is the same way. Despite your natural charm, you can't pretend to care for someone if you're missing a deep connection. You know what real love feels like and you'll accept no imitations! You're ready and able to experience romance and a powerful "spark" with someone special.

What's dating all about to you?
Finding a loving relationship is an ongoing journey for you. You try to learn from each date and new experience and move on. Falling in love comes naturally to you. It doesn't have to make sense. You're ready to "go with the flow" and see where it leads.

Because you thrive on new adventures and excitement, long-term relationships can be boring. And when you're bored, you typically try to shake things up. Deciding when and with whom you're ready to "settle down" is a special challenge for you.

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Who You're Looking For

He'll be passionate
You're looking for a man who can be your soul mate AND playmate in life! When you're alone with him, you'll talk for hours about anything and everything. Finding those quiet times won't be easy, though, because you'll have to share him with his wide network of friends. They, like you, will be drawn to him by his charm, good sense of humor and positive outlook on life. He really appreciates the people in his life and puts them ahead of everything else. He's the type of person who will talk you and your friends into playing hooky from work and spending the day at the park or enjoying some offbeat adventure. Unlike most men, he's not afraid of his emotions. In fact, the two of you will probably share an immediate, passionate connection.

You don't expect your partner to be in a good mood all the time. You understand that sometimes your partner will be down, get pessimistic or worry too much. These days are balanced by the many good days the two of you will share.

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Btw: I love your page!
 

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Posted by mackillian (Member # 586) on :
 


SOME emotions are readily apparent.

You'll note the boring job one...
 

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Posted by Taalcon (Member # 839) on :
 
This thing is pretty dang good...

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You're a shy, but very loving man. You care deeply about the people in your life, your work, hobbies, and the causes you fight for. You have an artistic side that can come out in painting, writing, or through relaxing activities like reading or watching movies. You're rather reserved and quiet so you can be hard to get to know. But you feel deeply about your loved ones and the important issues in your life. You put the ones you love ahead of everything else. Unlike most guys, you're not afraid to talk about (and feel!) emotions. So you're ready and able to experience a powerful "spark" with someone special.

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That's...like...dead on. Wow.
 

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Posted by vwiggin (Member # 926) on :
 
Thanks Val, my namesake.

Taalc:

Unlike most guys, you're not afraid to talk about (and feel!) emotions.

Good for you!
 

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Posted by Synesthesia (Member # 4774) on :
 
You're always exploring

You're smart, insightful, and have an insatiable curiosity about life. You have a vision for how you want your life to be, so you refuse to settle long-term for a boring job or doing something just because it's expected of you. Life should be "balanced" with plenty of time for fun, spontaneity, and romance! Because you're independent and a little shy, you only let a few people get especially close. But you also have a very romantic side hidden away and are ready to experience a genuine "spark" with someone.

What's dating all about to you?
You believe dating and life in general is about learning and growing as a person. You're a great listener, so men tend to enjoy going out with you. However, it's hard for you to have a real intellectual connection with an attractive man. Hopefully, you've found a way to "go with the flow" in dating as you already do in other parts of your life.

Quirks men notice
Like all women, you have your strengths as well as your quirks and shortcomings. Ultimately, you want to find someone who will love and accept you "warts and all." Because you're a private person, it's especially important that you find a partner who understands.

You have a pretty even-tempered personality and may not have any especially annoying or quirky habits. Of course, seeming to be "perfect" could be seen as a flaw by some, in which case you may just want to pretend to have a bad habit!

You're looking for a man who can be your soul mate AND playmate in life! He's a man with great integrity and the strength to stand up for causes he believes in. Unlike most men, he's not afraid of his emotions. In fact, the two of you will probably share an immediate, passionate connection. He's shy and a little hard to get to know. But he's worth the effort! One-on-one, you'll find a very warm, easygoing and understanding man. You may find it's like awakening a hidden prince! Though he may not always put it into words, he's in touch with his emotions and will do spontaneous and romantic things to express his feelings for you.

Totally on the money... Especially "Men find it hard to understand you"
 

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Posted by Valentine014 (Member # 5981) on :
 

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These two quotes sum up my mission on Xanga. Blogs are often an exercise in vanity, true. But they are also a celebration of life, an outcry into the void, seeking understanding without judgment, attention without responsibility. I am willing to endure ((((hugs)))), blogs pinker than a Victoria's Secret store, and deliberate spelling mistakes (wuz up peeps?) to partake in this philotic twining.

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That's beautiful, (((V))). Maybe I'll let you take a peek into mine. (There is supposed to be a really cool picture of Milla Jovovich on the left but I am having technical difficulties right now.)
 

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Posted by vwiggin (Member # 926) on :
 
Syn:

You're looking for a man who can be your soul mate AND playmate in life.... Unlike most men, he's not afraid of his emotions.

Hey, you should give Taalc a call.

Val, thank you for sharing your blog with me. It is much more beautiful and personal than mine. I love it, especially the "tell me I'm awesome" function.

Move to California you say?

Yes, please do.
 

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Posted by Valentine014 (Member # 5981) on :
 
Darling V. I will not be hooking up with Taal anytime soon, I'm afraid. No offense to him of course. But you must not have read my entire lj, for I am betrothed to one Xavier.

Edit: Wait a second...you were talking to Syn, weren't you? And hey! Thanks for the comment in my lj. and to edit Taalcon's nickname

[ April 04, 2004, 03:19 AM: Message edited by: Valentine014 ]
 

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Posted by Taalcon (Member # 839) on :
 
And you didn't read his post well enough

And no offense taken.

And also, the generally accepted shortened form of my name is Taal. No 'c'.

[ April 04, 2004, 01:08 AM: Message edited by: Taalcon ]
 

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Posted by Xavier (Member # 405) on :
 
I actually misread his post first and told her about it.

Its not Val's fault, she just trusts me so much she didn't read it herself to make sure what it said was what I thought it did .
 

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Posted by Xavier (Member # 405) on :
 
Oh and the "click here to tell me I'm awesome" was my suggestion. I also take credit for picking out both pH's and Val's picks.

I am a man of power .

Anyway here are my results:

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You bring a certain passion to life that most men lack. You'll stand up and fight for causes you believe in. You have a vision for the future and always are searching to find love and a sense of "balance" in your life. You refuse to settle long-term for a boring job or doing something just because it's expected of you. Because you're an independent guy and a little shy, you only let a few people get especially close. Still, you have an emotional depth than most men lack. So you're ready and able to experience romance and a powerful "spark" with someone special.

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You're looking for a woman who can be your soul mate AND playmate in life! Like most women, she's not afraid of her emotions. In fact, the two of you will probably share an immediate, passionate connection. Romance will come easily to the two of you. The challenge may be fitting into her busy life. You'll have to share her with her adoring friends, job, and variety of social and community causes. But when you're alone with her, you'll always have her undivided attention and be the focus of her loving and supportive nature.

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Good sex is important to you, but it's only one of many ways you connect emotionally with your partner. Whether it's sexual or simply an affectionate touch, you give and receive pleasure easily.

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Theres no glaring inaccuracies. The only criticisms about it so far are how similar all the answers seem to be. Maybe its cause we are all hatrackers .

Anyway, I also find it interesting how similar mine and Val's answers are .

[ April 04, 2004, 01:12 AM: Message edited by: Xavier ]
 

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Posted by Jeni (Member # 1454) on :
 
This test is actually pretty neat... one of the better I've seen

Who you are

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You're always Exploring
You're smart, insightful, and have an insatiable curiosity about life. In fact, you're always studying problems and finding ways to fix them. You have a vision for how to live the "good life" so you refuse to settle long-term for a boring job or doing something just because it's expected of you. In fact, you pride yourself on not being a "typical woman." You're independent, a little shy, and don't "wear your heart on your sleeve." This can make it hard to get to know you. Still, people are drawn to you by your fun and easygoing style. And when they get a chance to spend quiet time with you one-on-one, they're more likely to see your true self shine through.

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He'll be passionate
You're looking for a man who can be your soul mate AND playmate in life! He's a man with great integrity and the strength to stand up for causes he believes in. Unlike most men, he's not afraid of his emotions. In fact, the two of you will probably share an immediate, passionate connection. He's shy and a little hard to get to know. But he's worth the effort! One-on-one, you'll find a very warm, easygoing and understanding man. You may find it's like awakening a hidden prince! Though he may not always put it into words, he's in touch with his emotions and will do spontaneous and romantic things to express his feelings for you.

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You're smart, insightful and have an insatiable curiosity about life. In fact, you're always studying problems and finding ways to fix them. You have a talent for rising about the details of life and seeing the big picture. You have a vision for how to live "the good life" so you refuse to settle for a boring job or doing something just because it's expected of you. You have good friends, but you're also a pretty independent guy. You're not someone who wears his heart on his sleeve, so those close to you don't always know how you feel. Still, they are drawn to you by your fun and easy going life style.

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You're looking for a woman that can be your soul mate AND play mate. When you're alone with her, you can talk for hours about everything and anything. Finding those quiet times with her won't be easy though because you'll have to share her with her wide network of friends. They, like you, will be drawn to her by her charm, good sense of humor, and positive outlook on life. She really appreciates the people in her life and puts them ahead of everything else. She's the type of person who will talk you and your friends into playing hookey from work and spending the day at the park or some off beat adventure. Like most women, she's not afraid of her emotions. In fact, you two will probably share an immediate, passionate connection.

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Who You Are
You have a passionate connection with life
You bring real passion to life. You're the type of woman who stands up and fights for causes you believe in. You have a vision for how to live the "good life" so you refuse to settle long-term for a boring job or doing something just because it's expected of you. Life should be "balanced" with plenty of time for fun, spontaneity, and romance! Because you're an independent woman and a little shy, you only let a few people get especially close. But you have a romantic side hidden away and you're emotionally ready to experience a powerful "spark" with someone.

What's dating all about to you?
Falling in love is a spiritual experience for you. A truly loving relationship helps bring meaning to your life. You try hard to make your date feel comfortable and have a good time. You're good at anticipating what other people need and giving it to them. But inside, you're usually on an emotional roller coaster. You don't want to reject nice men, but also take it very personally if you're the one rejected.

You face two major challenges in finding the love of your life. First, because you're shy, you feel like you have to be someone else or "wear a mask" to go out and meet new people. You're left feeling like a distant observer, and men find it hard to truly understand you. Second, although your compassion for men is a very attractive quality, your focus on him can get in the way of getting what you want and need. It's crucial to find a way to "go with the flow" in dating as you already do in other parts of your life.

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Who You're Looking For

He'll be an enigma
You're looking for a man who can be your soul mate AND playmate in life! He's a man with great integrity and the strength to stand up for causes he believes in. You'll also find he has an insatiable curiosity about life, which leads him to have a wide variety of interests and hobbies. He's shy and a little hard to get to know. But he's worth the effort! One-on-one, you'll find a very warm, easygoing and understanding man. You may find it's like awakening a hidden prince! Though he may not always put it into words, he's in touch with his emotions and will do spontaneous and romantic things to express his feelings for you.

You don't expect your partner to be in a good mood all the time. You understand that sometimes your partner will be down, get pessimistic or worry too much. These days are balanced by the many good days the two of you will share.

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Who You Are

You're Adored, and for Good Reasons
You bring real passion to life. You're a woman of great integrity who'll stand up and fight for causes she believes in. You have a vision for how to live the "good life" so you refuse to settle long-term for a boring job or doing something just because it's expected of you. Life should be "balanced" with plenty of time for fun, spontaneity, fashion, and romance! You have lots of friends and really appreciate the people in your life. You put the ones you love ahead of everything else. In fact, sometimes you can put them ahead of your own needs.

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...You're overdue to bring real romance into your life and ready to experience a powerful "spark" with someone special.

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Falling in love is a spiritual experience for you. A truly loving relationship helps bring meaning to your life. You try hard to make your date feel comfortable and have a good time. You're good at anticipating what other people need and giving it to them. But inside, you're usually on an emotional roller coaster. You don't want to reject nice men, but also take it very personally if you're the one rejected.

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Men with the exact type of personality you prefer are rare gems.

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That I knew.

[ April 04, 2004, 03:38 AM: Message edited by: katharina ]
 

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Posted by Valentine014 (Member # 5981) on :
 
I want to take more of these quizzes. Anyone know of some good ones?
 

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Posted by katharina (Member # 827) on :
 
www.tickle.com
 

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Posted by Richard Berg (Member # 133) on :
 
okcupid.com is the best dating site. At least by my parameters: the introductory test is hilarious, and matching is free. Take a few minutes and back me up on the first count. (hint: contrapositive)

(note: while I've spent a lot of time laughing with friends at random match/tickle/hotornot/orkut/okcupid/etc profiles we come across, I've never actually listed myself)
 

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Posted by xnera (Member # 187) on :
 
I like the color quiz, which can normally be found at http://www.colorquiz.com but it appears to be down. Bummer.
 

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Posted by xnera (Member # 187) on :
 
See, I don't think of orkut as a dating site. To me it's more of a networking site, like Friendster or Tribe.net. I like reading the communities there. It'd be fun to meet someone via orkut, but that really wasn't my purpose in joining it. I'll happily send an invite to anyone who wants to join orkut.

I'll check out okcupid, too. It sounds like fun.
 

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Posted by St. Yogi (Member # 5974) on :
 

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You're always exploring

You're smart, insightful, and have an insatiable curiosity about life. You have a vision for how you want your life to be, so you refuse to settle long-term for a boring job or doing something just because it's expected of you. Life should be "balanced" with plenty of time for fun, spontaneity, and romance! Because you're independent and a little shy, you only let a few people get especially close. Still, you have an emotional depth that most men lack. You're ready and able to experience romance and a powerful "spark" with someone special.

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What's dating al about to you

You believe dating and life in general is about learning and growing as a person. You're a great listener, so women tend to enjoy going out with you. However, it's hard for you to have a real intellectual connection with an attractive woman. Hopefully, you've found a way to "go with the flow" in dating as you already do in other parts of your life.

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13% of all the men who have taken the test are similar to me.

1% of women are VERY attracted to me
39% are generally attracted to me

Well that was spot on. Especially the part about how only 1% of the female population is attracted to my type.
 

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Posted by vwiggin (Member # 926) on :
 
*pat pats Yogi*

Don't worry, I got the 1% too.
 

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Posted by Valentine014 (Member # 5981) on :
 
Sorry, Richard, but I hated the OKCupid test. The questions didn't have enough possible answers and I thought my results were way off.

Now to try tickle.
 

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Posted by fallow (Member # 6268) on :
 
I like ice-cream. And long walks on the beach with a glass of wine or a dribbling cone. better yet, both.



fallow
 

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Posted by Daedalus (Member # 1698) on :
 
What's rather disturbing about this is how opposite my ideal partner is from me. When I get stressed, I'm most likely to take off -- if she gets stressed, I'm willing to listen to her talk and cry, and comfort her however possible. When I'm willing to wait for sex in a relationship, I get turned on if she wants it early and often. When I want to be alone, I understand if she wants me to hold her. When I have impossibly ideal standards for women, I understand if she doesn't put expect me to be a god -- rather obvious, given that she's dating me, but...

Man. I really don't want to think about the psychological ramifications, if any, that this suggests.
 

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Posted by Valentine014 (Member # 5981) on :
 
Poor Lalo. You are doomed to roam the earth forever alone.

But in the mean time, take my quiz.
 

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Posted by Valentine014 (Member # 5981) on :
 
Not bad, Beren, for the limited info you have on me. You do one now!
 

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Posted by vwiggin (Member # 926) on :
 
Is there really a magazine called Star Wars Insider? If so, how do I subscribe?

I think the Xavier question should be worth like, 50 points.
 

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Posted by Valentine014 (Member # 5981) on :
 
Actually yes, there is a magazine called Star Wars Insider, but I let that subscription lapse. You can get it at any bookstore.
 

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Posted by vwiggin (Member # 926) on :
 
We're not name twins for nothing. I might create a quiz later. Right now, I'm under the influence of vodka and Shan's cookies..... sugar and vodka, what a great combination... You rock Shan!
 

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Posted by Valentine014 (Member # 5981) on :
 
Here you go.

I am such a geek. They let members order SW Christmas cards once, so I bought them to send out, but I liked them so much, I couldn't! Ya know, they might be worth something someday....

Edit: Did you say vodka and cookies?! Mmmm.

[ April 04, 2004, 07:12 AM: Message edited by: Valentine014 ]
 

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Posted by vwiggin (Member # 926) on :
 
lol... thanks Val!

How can I resist articles like "Keira Knightly: From Star Wars to Star Power"?

Next issue: "Bend it like Yoda."

Not just any vodka, Grey Goose... yes, Shan's cookies deserve the best.
 

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Posted by Valentine014 (Member # 5981) on :
 
Ok, thanks to my darling Xavier, my lj is looking tip top now, V. See it in it's true glory.
 

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Posted by Coccinelle (Member # 5832) on :
 
I have to wonder... do we identify with these personality types because they emphasize the positive personality traits more than the negative?
 

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Posted by Shan (Member # 4550) on :
 
At 6:59 a.m. Beren! Without me??? Naughty, truly naughty!

Glad you like the cookies - sounds like they arrived in time to help console you.

(Wanders off with mug of herbal tea chuckling at the vagaries of the male part of the human species.)
 

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Posted by vwiggin (Member # 926) on :
 
Shan! *ouch got up too fast* cookie hangover... but it was well worth it.

V, that is gloriouis indeed.... Count me among your obsessed fans.

Coccinelle, I did leave out some of the less positive aspects of my results:

-Your habit of picking at your scabs is attractive to less than .005% of women.

-You may not get along with an Amish woman.

-Despite being incredibly good in bed, being a sound sleeper is really not a quality women are looking for.


 

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Posted by Richard Berg (Member # 133) on :
 

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Sorry, Richard, but I hated the OKCupid test. The questions didn't have enough possible answers and I thought my results were way off.

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Whoever thought of some of the questions was having a lot of fun.

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The Boy Next Door
Random Gentle Love Dreamer (RGLDm)

Kind, yearning, playful, you are The Boy Next Door. You're looking for real Love, a lot like girls do. It might not be manly, but it's sweet.

We think the next three years will be very exciting and fruitful ones for you. Your spontaneous, creative side makes you a charming date, and we think you have a horny side just waiting to shine. Or glisten, rather. You enter new relationships unusually hopeful, and the first moments are especially glorious. If you've had some things not work out before, so what.

Your exact opposite:
The 5-Night Stand


On paper, most girls would name the Boy Next Door as their ideal mate. In the real world, however, you're often passed over for more dangerous or masculine men. You're the typical "nice guy:" without just a touch of cockiness, you're doomed with girls. A shoulder to cry on? Okay, sure. But never a penis to hold.

More than any other type, Boys Next Door evolve as they get older. As we said, many find true love, but some fail miserably in the search. These tarnished few grow up to be The Men Next Door, who are creepy as hell, offering backrubs to kids and what not.


ALWAYS AVOID: The Nymph

CONSIDER: The Maid of Honor, The Peach

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I don't know whether to say 'yeah! right on!' or 'that's a load of baloney.'
 

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Posted by St. Yogi (Member # 5974) on :
 
Hey Storm, I got the exact same one.

[ April 04, 2004, 05:23 PM: Message edited by: St. Yogi ]
 

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Posted by Storm Saxon (Member # 3101) on :
 
Sorry.

I mean, great!
 

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Posted by Narnia (Member # 1071) on :
 
We need to turn this thread into the single's redux that we had before. This could actually be useful!

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You have a special zeal for life

You're a woman with a very balanced personality and lifestyle. You believe in making room in life to relax, think, and have fun. You refuse to settle long-term for a boring job or doing something just because it's expected of you. Love is the same way. You know what real love feels like and you'll accept no imitations! You pride yourself on not being the "typical woman." You're more honest and straightforward than most women. But just because you don't "wear your heart on your sleeve" doesn't mean you lack deep feelings. In fact, you're deeply committed to your loved ones and the causes you believe in. Women as truly balanced as you are very rare.

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You face two major challenges in finding the love of your life. First, because your mind is so busy making sure you say and do the right things on dates, it's hard for your deeper and caring self to come through. It feels risky to share this part of yourself. Second, although having a vision of what you want can be helpful, the risk is that your high standards can get in the way of loving a real-life, imperfect man.

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He'll be an enigma

You're looking for a man who can be your lover AND your best friend! You want someone you can count on to do what he says and say what he means. He'll have strong values and lots of common sense. Chances are he'll be actively involved in social, religious or community organizations. Though he can be charming and outgoing at times, he'll also have a quiet and private side. In some ways, he may be hard to get to know, especially emotionally. But he's worth the effort! Behind his conservative clothes and reserved exterior, is an honest, down-to-earth man who's capable of the type of commitment you're looking for.

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You have a dazzling personality
You're a man with a very balanced personality and life style. You believe in making room in life to relax, think, and have fun. You're honest and straightforward (at times to a fault!). But just because you don't "wear your heart on your sleeve" doesn't mean you lack deep feelings. Someone who'll appreciate your smarts and charm will want to invest the time to get to know the deeper sensual side of you.

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ô¿o

"Dazzling" may be a bit too superlative to be accurate...
 

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Posted by PSI Teleport (Member # 5545) on :
 
Personality tests confuse me:

1. At parties, do you tend to talk to a lot of people, or sit by yourself?

Sit by myself.

2. Would you describe yourself as quick to open up, or slow to open up?

Slow to open up.

We have decided that you are introverted, and may do best alone. You aren't quick to share your feelings with others.

...

I mean, how difficult is that? They ask you how you react to certain situations, and then they tell you how you'll likely react to certain situations. AND the more questions the test has, the less remarkable it is. It just seems like they are regurgitating back what you told them. I'm never very amazed.
 

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Posted by Bokonon (Member # 480) on :
 
Here we go ladies

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You're smart, insightful, and have an insatiable curiosity about life. You have a vision for how you want your life to be, so you refuse to settle long-term for a boring job or doing something just because it's expected of you. Life should be "balanced" with plenty of time for fun, spontaneity, and romance! Because you're independent and a little shy, you only let a few people get especially close. Still, you have an emotional depth that most men lack. You're ready and able to experience romance and a powerful "spark" with someone special.

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You believe dating and life in general is about learning and growing as a person. You're a great listener, so women tend to enjoy going out with you. However, it's hard for you to have a real intellectual connection with an attractive woman. Hopefully, you've found a way to "go with the flow" in dating as you already do in other parts of your life.

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You have a pretty even-tempered personality and may not have any especially annoying or quirky habits. Of course, seeming to be "perfect" could be seen as a flaw by some, in which case you may just want to pretend to have a bad habit!

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That's right Jatraqueras, I'm perfect (what's the deal with quotes around perfect anyway?? ).

Yet, only 1% of you are strongly attracted to my personality. Hmmm.

-Bok
 

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Posted by Beren One Hand (Member # 3403) on :
 
That's interesting and all... but does it tell me whether you will go all in with two pairs with a possible flush draw after the turn?
 

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Posted by Bokonon (Member # 480) on :
 
Depends, is one of the pairs on the table, or are they made in my hand?

-Bok
 

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Posted by Beren One Hand (Member # 3403) on :
 
Bok starts with: 4H 8H

*Bok checks as the BB*

Flop: AD 4S 7D

*People hardly bet... Bok decides to buy one more card to see if he could improve his pair*

Turn: 8D

R.Berg bets the pot. Bok raises 2x pot. R.Berg is all in.
 

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Posted by Bokonon (Member # 480) on :
 
Heck no, between the A in the flop, and the flush possibility (not to mention a straight), and my low pairs, I'm folding.

-Bok
 

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Posted by Beren One Hand (Member # 3403) on :
 
Darn you and your skills.

Upon Richard (or was it Saxon's) advice, I picked up Skalansky's book. Actually, I bought the new edition by mistake (for advanced players). Ack. Apparently you made the right move acccording to the master.
 

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Posted by Bokonon (Member # 480) on :
 
Hehe, that was more intuition. Plus when you set it up like this, and include Richard Berg, I'm bound to be a bit more cautious...

-Bok
 

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Posted by Beren One Hand (Member # 3403) on :
 
I'm too impulsive. My bets in poker are more of an act of aggression than calculation, like driving is for some people. I need a therapist.
 

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Posted by SoberTillNoon (Member # 6170) on :
 
Who You Are

You're loved, and for good reasons
You bring a certain passion to life that most men lack. You'll stand up and fight for causes you believe in. You have a vision for how to live the "good life" so you refuse to settle long-term for a boring job or doing something just because it's expected of you. Life should be "balanced" with plenty of time for fun, spontaneity, and romance! You're blessed with good friends and appreciate the people in your life. In fact, you put the ones you love ahead of everything else. Unlike most guys, you're not afraid to talk about (and feel!) emotions. In fact, you're ready and able to experience romance and a powerful "spark" with someone special.

What's dating all about to you?
Falling in love is a spiritual experience for you. A truly loving relationship helps bring meaning to your life. You try hard to make your date feel comfortable and have a good time. You're good at anticipating what other people need and giving it to them. But inside, you're usually on an emotional roller coaster. You don't want to reject nice women, but also take it very personally if you're the one rejected.

Although your compassion for women is a very attractive quality, your focus on her can get in the way of getting what you want and need. It's crucial to find a way to "go with the flow" in dating as you already do in other parts of your life.

How unique is your type?
Your personality profile is similar to a number of men your age. Looking at over 10,000 men who have taken the test, about 6% (or 1 in 16 men) have very similar beliefs, values, and habits. Of course, the way these qualities are expressed in you is what makes you so unique.

How many other men have personalities like you?

Quirks women notice
Like all men, you have your strengths as well as your quirks and shortcomings. Ultimately, you want to find someone who will love and accept you "warts and all." Though you have lots of friends, it's important to have at least one person who understands.

Because you're a big-hearted man, at times you can be swayed too much by emotions and a desire to keep your friends and family happy.
Preferring to keep your options and plans open can hurt you at times when you need to commit to something (or someone!) that can't be put off indefinitely.
Some days when you're in a bad mood and can't hide it, co-workers or friends take it personally and think you're upset at them.
Do women like your type?
Notice that 43% of women are generally attracted to your personality type. 10% say they are VERY attracted. With the millions of people on Match.com, that translates into lots of potential matches.

Who You're Looking For

She'll be an enigma
You're looking for a woman with an artistic and sensual nature. She's typically easygoing and believes in living in the here and now. But she's also willing to take a stand for social or environmental causes she believes in. She's rather reserved and quiet, so she can be hard to get to know. She's more likely to express her feelings through actions and art, rather than through words. But as you spend more one-on-one time with her, you'll discover an exceptionally kind and compassionate woman. Like most women, she's not afraid of her emotions. In fact, the two of you will probably experience an immediate, passionate connection.

You don't expect your partner to be in a good mood all the time. You understand that sometimes your partner will be down, get pessimistic or worry too much. These days are balanced by the many good days the two of you will share. In fact, you share a number of positive qualities, including:

She's very in tune with and considerate of others' feelings.
She has a "back bone" and won't be pushed around by other people.
You can appreciate each other's "dark side" and don't have to pretend that you're happy all the time.

Number of women your type
Women with the exact type of personality you prefer are rare gems. Looking at over 10,000 women who have taken this test, only 5% (or 1 in 20 women) have the exact combination of similarities and contrasts in personality you find extremely appealing.

However, there's a larger group, 19% (or 1 in 5 women), who have most, but not all, of the qualities and habits you like. These subgroups are charted below.

Approximately One-third of the women have at least some of the traits you find attractive.

But you'd have a negative reaction to 9% (or 1 in 11 women), who have some or many of the characteristics you clearly dislike.

How many women are your "ideal" type?

Opposites sometimes attract
You want to share your life with someone who has the same values, goals, and style you have. Research has shown that couples who have more in common tend to stay together longer. Still, sometimes differences can help create a "spark" and excitement about each other. Part of you wants to be more like her, or at least have her unique style in your life. She could be good for you in many ways:

Her quiet and gentle nature can have a calming effect on you and release you from having to be "on" all the time.
Quirks you can tolerate
The truth is that everyone is potentially "high maintenance." We all have our quirks and shortcomings. The key to long-term harmony is finding a woman who can tolerate (or maybe even enjoy) your "quirks," or the little personal oddities that make you unique. You seem okay with several common quirks that might come along with your "ideal" woman:

You can honor her need to be quiet and have "alone time."
On days when her mind is clouded by sadness or worries, you're willing to offer extra support and patience.
You can appreciate that her big heart lets her be swayed too much by emotions and a desire to keep her friends and family happy.
Downside of your "ideal"
In addition to her quirks, your "ideal" personality type may have other qualities that are more frustrating or challenging to deal with. Under stress, her quirks can become serious "flaws." But remember, these quirks are the "flip side of the coin," or the extreme end of qualities you otherwise find appealing. So, be prepared if:

Her hesitancy to go to parties or out with large groups could stand in the way of staying connected with your friends and doing some of your favorite activities.
Deal breakers
You seem ready to adapt to the good and frustrating qualities of the women you're looking for, but there are types of women you clearly do NOT like. Women's habits and attitudes you'd have a hard time putting up with include:

Your responses suggest that you are pretty accepting and tolerant of shortcomings. No major personality "deal breakers" or reasons to rule out potential dates were identified.
Trade-offs you'll face

Good Qualities Challenging Qualities
Cares deeply for a few very close friends. Has little desire to branch out and meet new people.
Tries to balance a creative and imaginative side, with "real world" pragmatics about what you can and cannot do. Promising ideas are often dropped if they don't succeed right away.
Sensitivity to emotions promotes greater insight and compassion for you and others. Emotions can cloud judgment and thinking.
Not afraid to make tough decisions and move ahead. Jumps too quickly to make decisions, because waiting is so hard to do.

Sex

Romantic sex
Good sex is important to you, but it's only one of many ways you connect emotionally with your partner. Whether it's sexual or simply an affectionate touch, you give and receive pleasure easily.

Among men your age, your particular combination of sexual drive and interests is similar to about 1 in 6 men (16%).

Is she sexually compatible?
You're looking for someone who values the quality of sex over the quantity. Ideally, you'd like someone who is talented at keeping sex new, fun and exciting.

What's ahead for you sexually?
A good sexual match plays a key role in your "ideal" relationship. You've kept your "wild," sexual side in check, but with the right woman you could open up the floodgates and let your sexy ideas and temptations flow. If you can bring your natural creativity and imagination to the bedroom, your sex life will never be boring. You know what it's like to emotionally connect with someone and truly make love (vs. just having sex). It'll be hard (or impossible) to settle for anything less. Someone as loving and sensual as you should hold out for a woman who shares your passions.

Attraction Science

What is personality?
Personality is the set of traits and characteristics that make each of us unique yet relatively stable and consistent over time.

- People see and interpret the world differently.
- They want different things.
- They make decisions differently.
- They get excited and energized by different situations.
- They structure their careers, social life, and private time in different ways.

What does personality have to do with attraction?
The way in which people are similar or different in personality strongly affects their attraction to one another. Two people with similar values are more likely to become (and stay) friends or a couple, indeed part of compatibility is having "common ground." However, for many people, compatibility may also involve a balance between each other's quirks and differences.

And they have it right.
 

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